There is a thin line between deciding “should I trust God” Or “should I just go do it myself.” When God takes his time with our repetitious prayers, we become anxious and rebellious by telling God that his services are no longer needed. Faith is what moves God. Faith is what makes God discover if you can be trusted during the waiting process. Whether your faith is as large as the ocean or small as a mustard seed, it is in your faith that God decides what is best for you. Those days when anxiety takes over just begin to encourage yourself by telling your soul that God has a bigger plan for you. Tell your soul that you have declined your premature blessing and have decided to wait on God. When you are in need of an answer and it seems as though God is taking his time, just remember that the level of your faith determines the size of your blessing.
And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him. Hebrews 11:6
When I was younger, I can remember crying at night, asking God to send me someone who would love me unconditionally not realizing that it was the Love of God that was sustaining me at the loneliest of times. Instead of focusing on the human touch I should have been focusing on my relationship with God and his plan for my life. When Adam was in the Garden of Eden not once did he complain to God about his longing for companionship, Adam served God and waited for God to provide everything that he needed. The next time you are feeling lonely and feel as if no one cares just remember God and his undying love for you. God put Adam to sleep so that he could finish the work that needed to be done in him so that he would have the ability to love, respect and cherish Eve. God made sure that Adam was strong enough to handle her insecurities, sensitive enough to hold her when she fell and had the courage to stand beside her in her moment of weakness. Only God can awaken the love of a man when the timing is right. Only God can create a man to love you the way you want to be loved. Wherever he is God is strategically designing him for you. Wherever he is God is preparing his heart to connect with your soul. Stop wasting precious time wondering where “he” is and focus on the relationship between you and your creator. If you spend your time connecting with God then God will spend his time creating wonderful blessings for you. In order for Adam to become a whole (complete) man, God had to remove woman from his side so he could adjust his heart and his emotions to properly fit her soul. Adam is still asleep. If you wake him too soon you will disturb the progress of his transformation and delay the love that has longed for you.
And the Lord caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh thereof. Genesis 2:21
Freedom is the power or right to act, without hindrance or restraint. Without the exercise of freedom this world would be chaotic and full of undisciplined leaders who would have no restrictions on their actions or prejudices. Although freedom is what makes society a better place to be, we as Christians lack the same freedom within our souls. Instead of waking up in the morning feeling liberated (free) and empowered, we wake up feeling depressed, bound and defeated. What happened is we have taken the blows of life and downloaded the pain and defeat into our spirits which in return have tortured and disrupted our once peaceful souls. Ladies, we must go back to the place where we first experienced God and begin to allow the joy and undisturbed composure to permeate our souls and release an oasis of God’s love that will protect us through the troublesome times in our life. Freedom is a choice. You either choose to be free or you choose to stay bound. What is your choice today?
Let me again experience the joy of your deliverance! Sustain me by giving me the desire to obey! Psalm 51:12 (Net Bible)
As women, we love to shop for shoes, clothing, and make-up, not to mention the latest trend….hair! We get so caught up in our appearance and the material things that we have forgotten to tend to our emotional soul and dying spirit. A spirit that is dying is usually depressed, angry, sinful, unsatisfied, unashamed (of their actions or words) and without restraint. So to make sure that the world doesn’t see past the beauty and fashion, more luxury and self-gratification is applied which then turns into what Jesus calls “whitewashed tombs, which look beautiful on the outside but on the inside are full of the bones of the dead and everything unclean (Matthew 23:27).” Ladies, looking beautiful is what we do, but if we don’t allow God to wash us (cleanse us) and make us whole (heal us) then we are just beautiful women with a dead spirit and a decomposed soul.
but she who is self-indulgent is dead even while she lives. 1Timothy 5:6 (ESV)
“Women of God can never be like women of the world. The world has enough women who are tough; we need women who are tender. There are enough women who are coarse; we need women who are kind. There are enough women who are rude; we need women who are refined. We have enough women of fame and fortune; we need more women of faith. We have enough greed; we need more goodness. We have enough vanity; we need more virtue. We have enough popularity; we need more purity” Margaret D. Nadauld