When I was younger, I can remember crying at night, asking God to send me someone who would love me unconditionally not realizing that it was the Love of God that was sustaining me at the loneliest of times. Instead of focusing on the human touch I should have been focusing on my relationship with God and his plan for my life. When Adam was in the Garden of Eden not once did he complain to God about his longing for companionship, Adam served God and waited for God to provide everything that he needed. The next time you are feeling lonely and feel as if no one cares just remember God and his undying love for you. God put Adam to sleep so that he could finish the work that needed to be done in him so that he would have the ability to love, respect and cherish Eve. God made sure that Adam was strong enough to handle her insecurities, sensitive enough to hold her when she fell and had the courage to stand beside her in her moment of weakness. Only God can awaken the love of a man when the timing is right. Only God can create a man to love you the way you want to be loved. Wherever he is God is strategically designing him for you. Wherever he is God is preparing his heart to connect with your soul. Stop wasting precious time wondering where “he” is and focus on the relationship between you and your creator. If you spend your time connecting with God then God will spend his time creating wonderful blessings for you. In order for Adam to become a whole (complete) man, God had to remove woman from his side so he could adjust his heart and his emotions to properly fit her soul. Adam is still asleep. If you wake him too soon you will disturb the progress of his transformation and delay the love that has longed for you.
And the Lord caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh thereof. Genesis 2:21
“Women of God can never be like women of the world. The world has enough women who are tough; we need women who are tender. There are enough women who are coarse; we need women who are kind. There are enough women who are rude; we need women who are refined. We have enough women of fame and fortune; we need more women of faith. We have enough greed; we need more goodness. We have enough vanity; we need more virtue. We have enough popularity; we need more purity” Margaret D. Nadauld
Oftentimes we get so angry with people when they lack certain things such as loyalty, respect, temperance, and love. I have come to find out that if we are not taught certain things or have asked God to ignite these characteristics within us then we are just mere mortals carrying an empty soul with the potential of being a wonderful person.
Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6-7